Lessons from the Garden to Promote Patience

By Laura Goldberg

Our egos may step in and try to convince us that we are not doing enough to instigate change. We may fall into the trap of separation, believing that we must take more control in order to manifest our dreams. Somewhere between intention and manifestation we may begin to lose faith and become somewhat impatient.

How can we muster up patience while waiting for our dreams to manifest? We can turn to the garden for answers.

Lesson #1:  When it seems like nothing is changing, know that a time of dormancy may be necessary for growth. In some climates plants require a period of quiet inaction in order to conserve energy. Then when the conditions are favorable, they will once again grow and flourish. In the Pacific Northwest region of the United States, roses are pruned back to stick like figures in the winter. Then one day when the gardener least expects it, the plants become vibrant with the green of new growth. Soon after buds appear and at just the right time, gorgeous roses splatter color throughout the previously barren garden. Change has occurred and the blooms are more beautiful than the gardener ever dreamed possible. The garden is full of magical surprises, just like our lives.

Lesson #2:  Amazing manifestations are worth waiting for, no matter how long the wait. Gardeners who have been blessed with Gardenia plants, know the power of patience in the garden. Gardenias are exquisite little flowers that emit a heavenly fragrance like no other. They are truly one of nature’s most beautiful contributions to the planet. However, these flowers require a lot of patience and love to grow. In addition, these plants take their own sweet time producing a flower. The space of time between bud and flower can seem like forever, and nothing can speed up the growing process. No amount of cheering, positive affirmations, singing, dancing or pleading is going to encourage that little bud to open up until it is ready. Then, just when it seems like it is never going to bloom, it does. This one little flower that took oh so long to grow, has now manifested into a flower extraordinaire. The garden is a better place because of this flower. It will contribute to the greater good in ways we cannot even imagine, just like we will when it is our time.

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